Zaane's blog

Archive for August, 2009

No matter how beautiful and wonderful romantic relationships can be, there are still cases that end up in a bad break up. Sometimes, even if the couple agrees to end their romantic relationship and become just good friends, their hearts are still scarred from the heartaches and pain they went through before the end of their relationship. Some people, especially young people who are not emotionally mature and strong enough to handle the pains in breaking up a relationship, end up not recovering from depression resulting to self destructive actions like not eating, eating too much, not wanting to go to work, and even committing suicide.

After experiencing a break up, may it be a mutual decision or a bad one, the first thing one should do is to cry everything that he has to cry for. Many people may tell you to stop crying and that crying will not help you get back on your feet again, but the truth is, crying can be the first good thing you can do on your path to healing your heart. Let your emotions flow; it’s okay to show that you’ve been hurt. Because feeling pain means you are the kind of person who knows how to love. Crying would make you feel better. On the other hand, crying for days, is not healthy. This would mean that you are now feeling the depression your broken heart is giving you. In this case, it is advisable to go out with friends and find other wonderful things life has to offer you.

Being in a failed relationship doesn’t mean one is a failure. Thus, it is not good to think that you are not worthy of being loved by other people. Meeting new people and going out on dates again may help you to heal.